Archive for August 2008
How much protection is enough?
Actually there are no set definitions of how much self defense is practical and how much is more than required. This is mainly because of the fact that the self protection requirement of different people varies based on certain factors. Those who work late hours or need to travel to lonely and dangerous areas need to be more trained in self defense techniques than others. Professionals like security guards and personal guards who face criminals or defiant individuals as part of their profession also need more self defense. Even those who need to meet strangers on a regular basis should be extra careful and ensure that they have thought about self defense so that they are not caught unawares.
Such individuals should, at the least, purchase some self defense products and understand how they are used so that they can confidently face any situation that arises. In fact, such people should take the trouble of thinking about the various dangers that can possibly arise and prepare mentally and physically for the same.
This is not to state that people who have a nine-to-five job do not need any self defense. The crime scene today does not allow anyone to stay relaxed and indifferent to the topic of self defense. While some professionals may be at a higher risk of being attacked or victimized, each one of us is at a certain risk of being mugged or picked upon. Pick pockets, bag snatchers and rapists are at large in the city. Individual self protection is essential for all.
It is also a fact that with increasing competition and pressures, everyone cannot afford to take the time for customized professional self defense training. Most people require simple products that can allow a temporary win that allows a quick escape. Pepper sprays, stun guns and tasers are some easy to use products that can be bought and learned extremely easy. One does not need to go through an extensive self defense training program to learn how to use these simple products that are actually designed for the general public.
Therefore, the idea in an attack situation is to incapacitate the aggressor for a limited period of time so that you can make a run for it. These products are meant for exactly such incidents and therefore are most practical. It is also wise to buy products that are disguised as regular items like pens, beepers, lipsticks and the like so that you can use them without warning the assailant.
About the Author – Steve Thibeault
TBO-TECH is a company dedicated to help you defend yourself in the time of need. Other than a wide range of pepper sprays, stun guns and batons, the company also provides martial arts weapons, home and personal alarms, hidden safes, spy gear and fun sporting products like slingshots and blowguns. For more information log on to TBO-TECH
This is a little departure from previous posts; but something to “bear in mind” as you venture out into the “dating world”. You can never be too careful!!
Gary A.
Add comment August 18, 2008
Online Dating Safety for Women
Online dating can be a fun and certainly a rewarding experience for women of all ages. Maintaining your safety while doing it is simply a combination of using common sense and exercising good judgment. Online safety rules are the same as real world safety rules.
You wouldn’t give your name, address and phone number to a strange man that you met in a bar or on the street so you should never do that online either. Play it safe! Get to know this man who could turn out to be Prince Charming before you give out any information that could make it possible for him or others to trace you. Don’t tell a stranger exactly where you work. Say that you are a legal secretary (if that’s what you are) for a mid-sized law firm. Not that you work for Brown, Smith and Jones Attorneys-at-law. It is safe to tell him what city you live in but you should wait to be any more specific than that until you have been chatting and exchanging emails for awhile.
Use only the tools provided by the dating service you belong to. Most offer chat and private email on their site. Do not give out your ISP email address. If you must give out an email address make it a free one such as Hotmail or Yahoo. Your ISP address is traceable for anyone who wants to go to the trouble.
When the time comes for you to have your first face-to-face, make that first meeting in a public place and during day light hours. Take a friend with you or arrange for one to call you on your cell soon after the arranged meeting.
Remember; you ARE in control so do not let anyone pressure you into revealing more personal information than you are comfortable with revealing.
About the Author – Rachelle
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Gary A.
Add comment August 15, 2008
Do You Know The Truth About Online Dating Sites?
One of their favorite tricks is to try and secure your credit card information before you can sign up for their free trial offer. If that happens to you, please move on! If not you will find your credit card billed for either a monthly, quarterly, or semi-annually membership plan. The reason…? You didn’t cancel your free trial in time!
Silly you thought sending an email within the free trial period would be sufficient. After you question the membership that was charged to your card, they will direct you to the “f ine print” of your free trial contract. It boils down to this; you were to send a cancellation letter by REGULAR mail!
Another cute trick the online dating sites love to pull on you is; not allowing you full access during your free trial. You will be able to receive emails, but unable to respond! That is about as useless as it gets!
Avoid these sites like the plague! There are many, many more for you to choose from.
If you spend just a little time researching the online dating sites, you will know the truth!
About the Author – Vivian Johnson
Vivian has been involved with online dating since it’s inception! This is her main dating forum, since there is no other place in the world where you can have access to millions of eligible singles!
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Gary A.
1 comment August 11, 2008
Dating Advice – How to Make A Woman Love You More Than You Love Her
So what exactly is the thing that men should have or do, so that he will stand a higher chance to get a woman to love him? It is simple. Create ATTRACTION. Before you can even think about love and romance, you have to make her attracted to you. If you do not build attraction, then you can forget about getting her to fall in love.
Buying gifts and taking her to fancy dinner cannot trigger attraction. What you will need to do is to demonstrate all the classic signs which women find extremely attractive, for example:
1. Have self-confidence. Women like men who are confident with themselves and what they do.
2. Be humorous, but with a touch of arrogance. This will show that you are intimidated by her presence, and with this, you will clearly differentiate yourself from other guys who try to date her.
3. Have your own exciting life. Do not show that your life just only revolves around her. Go out there and meet new women, and enjoy your life. Life is too short to stay still.
4. Be strong. I am not referring to physically, but mentally. You will need to demonstrate strength in you, and have your own directions.
Remember, if you want to know how to make a woman love you, simply focus on getting her attracted to you. You will be surprised with the results.
About the Author – Crid Lee
Crid Lee is the webmaster of WhyWomenPlayHardToGet.com
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Gary A.
2 comments August 9, 2008
A place to meet your life partner and lots of friends
Some of the online dating sites ask you lots of questions, prior they attempt to match you a partner. There are many views about the importance or effectiveness of online dating sites. If you are serious and looking for a life partner then these online dating sites can be very effective for you but if you are looking for fun only then they can give you for what you are searching there.
When you are going to join an online dating site, take the time to say something about yourself such as about your lifestyle, interest and also about the type of person you want to meet. You should prepare your mind that the first online date is not going to turn into your marriage.
If you are looking for a great online dating site that can provide you what you need then Bemingled can be a great site for you as it offers you various free features that you would love to get and enjoy. It allows you to make love connections and learn things about people you meet everyday. This online dating site is run by a network of professionals who are dedicated to provide facilities to their members and care about the members whether they are getting the high level of satisfaction with the online dating experience.
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Gary A.
Add comment August 8, 2008
Free Dating Sites – Why Pay When You Can Get Free
Free dating sites have the advantage of being zero cost to use. This can be a huge incentive if you are watching your pennies while saving for that cruise over the holidays. Those who have tried out both types of sites actually prefer the free sites because you are never made to feel that you are meeting a more elite group of people if you pay more. The truth is that you meet lots of people at either type of dating site, so why spend the money on a membership when you could be spending it on a date instead.
You can meet more people
When you sign up for free dating sites, you can bet that other people are also taking advantage of the free site and signing up also. Simple statistics will tell you that the more people that you meet, the more likely you are to find someone that you hit it off with. The fun of the site is getting the opportunity to make lots of new acquaintances, whether or not you end up dating them or just becoming online friends. Take advantage of the site to learn about other people who like meeting and interacting with online friends.
You can take your time
With free dating sites, you never need to be in a rush to search for and contact potential matches online. You are never pressured to pay for another month so that you can extend your search to find new dating partners. Instead, you are free to participate in the activities at the site or take a hiatus if you need to concentrate on activities offline for a day or two. This provides you with the ability to achieve and maintain balance in your life without the stress of online contacts becoming almost a homework assignment.
You will find more variety
People of all types and interests frequent free dating sites. You will meet a huge variety of these people on a web site where people like to gather. Of course, it is up to you to select the people you feel comfortable with, but a dating site provides a great opportunity to meet people with interests similar to your own, or people who have interests you would like to learn about. You may even have the opportunity of teaching others about a passion you have.
You get great product opportunities
Because many companies like to advertise their businesses and products on a web site that is active and draws many visitors, free dating sites are often the location of some great product offers. Do you want to take a Love Boat style cruise? You can find offers on a dating site. How about a meal at a romantic restaurant in a resort location? Just check out the offers on the dating sites with no membership costs required and you are sure to find something to pique your interest. You’ll get new ideas for activities and products usually at attractive prices.
About the Author – Ingrid Margaret
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Gary A.
1 comment August 6, 2008
Hypnotic Seduction – Let Hypnotic Seduction Get You a Date
Easier said than done? Don’t be afraid. By following these tips on hypnotic seduction, you will be able to have better control over any situation and give others an enhanced impression of you at the same time.
Be the one.
In hypnotic seduction, the first thing you can do is to turn yourself into the person your target wants. That way, they will be easier to charm.
Remember that you want that person’s focus to be entirely on you. It’s not really such a difficult task. You can start out with the simple things.
If your target prefers blondes, perhaps it’s time for a change in hair color (provided that the color will also suit you). Or if your target likes someone who reads a lot, then why don’t you do some light reading?
By harnessing qualities your target wants, you’re creating opportunities for yourself and increasing your power over that person, however; if you’re looking for something a little more long-term, you should also adjust these changes with your own preferences.
If you don’t like reading, but go head over heels about music, then why don’t you try reading a book about your favorite band? That way, you’re still staying true to yourself!
It’s not that hard to find out just what these characteristics are either! Just have fun while you’re at it and you don’t have to worry about a thing!
Catch them off guard.
Normally, people have barriers which shield them from being affected by hypnotic seduction and other such suggestive manners. It’s something we all have inside of us.
For example, if you’re trying to score with a person who dislikes cheesiness, then you know better than to come up with a corny pick-up line. Actually, you should know better than to use one entirely!
By doing something completely original, you automatically get a chance to show more of what you’ve got. If you like watching movies, then you might remember instances when a girl would just hold her hand up and say no even before the guy gets to ask her out on a date. This is exactly how the barrier works. So work your way around it. Don’t trigger that “No way!” reaction from your target.
Hypnotic seduction brings in more benefits than you might imagine. Overall, you’ll become better at reading people and anticipating their reactions. You will also find yourself with growing confidence as you set out to achieve success after success!
About the Author – Michael Lee
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Gary A.
Add comment August 1, 2008