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Romantic Relationship Compatibility – Issues That Should Not Be Overlooked
Now, how do you know when and if you are compatible with the person you are dating? The short and simple answer is : You don’t. At least, not in the beginning. Clearly, you’re not a mind reader. You need a way to think through the issues that can make or mar a relationship. It is the presence (or lack) of compatibility in any relationship that causes the relationship to last or causes it to fail. Consider these questions: How will you get along with another person? What will the highs and lows, be in the relationship? Is it a match made in heaven or hell? Usually, Astrology plays a role in providing a guide to couples or people involved in a relationship. Astrologers, through the use of charts, compares the interrelationship of two separate charts through which they can reveal the ways and levels that the two people can relate with each other.
The romantic compatibility chart compares two people with regards to all the things that affect their ability to live in harmony with each other, from relationship personality and lifestyle to sexuality and passion. This is one of the most comprehensive ways available that will help you to understand how You should relate romantically with another person and how you both can better understand and appreciate each other. Actually, romantic compatibility relies more on couples or partners, and not just what astrology says.
In view of the above, there are some relationship compatibility issues that should not be overlooked, which include but not limited to the following:
1. FAMILY UPBRINGING (CLASS AND RELIGION) This is a very important issue that should not be overlooked, as it may be difficult for an individual to change from the ways he/she grows with from childhood. It may be difficult for an individual from a very wealthy family background who has always been relating with people of the same class to now change over night and start seeing himself/herself relating with somebody(especially when you take the extended family into consideration) from the lower class of the society. Difference in religious belief should also be given serious consideration from beginning. If this is not properly considered and settled, the couple will always be viewing issues from different perspectives and this may lead to recurrent problems.
2. INTELLECTUAL COMPATIBILITY : There should be some reasonable level of compatibility here. A highly intelligent individual will always view issues from the angle of perfection and may not be able to tolerate , work or live with a mediocre. 3. SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY: There should be some manageable level of compatibility here, to avoid the likely result of sexual incompatibility, which includes cheating. 4. PERSONAL CHARACTER AND ATTITUDE : Laziness, Cleanliness, tolerance, friendship e.t.c.
5. INDIVIDUAL PREFERENCE : Life Goals, Business and Enterprise, Spending Habit and Life Style
OTHER ISSUES : 1.COLOUR 2.ETHNICITY 3.PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
The first two of the other issues above should be easy to manage except in a society where there is ethnic problem or racism. The last is normally a thing of the mind and should be easily managed depending on the individuals concerned.
In conclusion, if these issues have been discussed with open mind and you think you both find each other compatible and that you love each other for sure, the romantic compatibility will grow slowly between you and your partner. Astrology just guide and gives you some important details that might help you in choosing your potential partner in future and certain aspects that will help you enhance your personality and building up the romantic compatibility in your relationship.
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About the Author – Olalekan Ashiru
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Gary A.
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How a SHI Symbol Helps Fashion Conscious Singles Worldwide Find Dates and Love
I just love using a SHI Symbol because it is so practical and versatile it allows its users to wear or use it 24/7 in a variety of circumstances such as going to the park, swimming, at work, walking to the bus, jogging, sitting at a desk, at a meeting, at the local shopping centre, at the gym, playing blackjack, having a social drink somewhere and the list is virtually endless – that it definitely increases the opportunities for a Single to Meet their Match. This is why SHI Symbol is so successful and works so well in helping you be recognized as a Single, but also helps you if you are attracted to someone who IS Single.
With 45.6% of the US population being Single (as per USA Census 2000 data), wearing or using your SHI Symbol sets you apart as it is viewed as the 21st Century answer to showing Single people how to clearly and easily Meet Their Match 24/7.
In the same way a wearer of a wedding band clearly signifies “I am taken,” the SHI Symbol which can be worn or used in many ways, such as a pendant, earrings, cufflinks, tie pins, lapel pins, on clothing, attached to handbags, laptops, mobile/cell phones – the myriad of ways seems to be endless and is poised to be the Single persons fashion piece with a real purpose. There does seem to be something for everyone available.
So often the Heterosexual Singles population is well catered for with ways to meet other Singles. This time there is also good news for Gays and Lesbians in that there have also been SHI Symbols released for them to be able to show their Gender preference as well as their Single status. It seems all Singles are truly catered for.
With over 100.9 Million Singles in the USA alone, the market is massive and lucrative for anyone involved in the Dating, Matchmaking and Singles scene. One only has to look at the billions of dollars spent on Internet Dating alone to see the desire Singles have to “Meet Their Match”.
So, if you are one of the many Singles of the world, celebrate this Single status with your SHI Symbol and get out there and meet people all day, every day. Internet dating is a great way to meet people, but ‘offline’ you need a way to do it really easily and this makes it exceedingly easy to see someone you might be attracted to or who might be attracted to you! You could try a pair of Manolo Blahnik or Jimmy Choo shoes or one of Carrie’s Sex and the City outfits to get a similar reaction, but that does seem like a lot of hard work, not to mention money. Yes, a SHI Symbol immediately gives you the answer to that age-old question of how does one know who IS Single as many people don’t wear a wedding band anymore. What follows is up to you.
About the Author
Suzanne Morgan found SHI Symbol by searching for something that specifically helped Singles be identified as a Single. She found http://www.shisymbol.com that is the International Symbol for Singles that takes the hard work out of meeting people. Suzanne says the SHI Symbol works for her and she views it as the ONLY successful dating tool that works 24/7 and the key to meeting other men and women for friendship, a date, some love and romance.
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Gary A.
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